It’s no secret that I love to argue and debate and discuss
all kinds of issues, both moral and political. (And let’s be honest, many
issues fall into both categories.) In fact, my former brother-in-law was banned
by my sister from talking with me because it always ended in an argument – ha!
But productive and enlightening discourse can only occur on the presumption of
honesty. In other words, it is fine to disagree with others and to promote your
own agenda or cause. But when you knowingly misrepresent that agenda or the justification
of it, then you are being dishonest.
Today’s case in point: Mormon Women Stand. This is a
Facebook group that I have recently become acquainted with. The description of
the groups says, “LDS women who, without hesitation, sustain the Lord's
Prophet, the Family Proclamation as doctrine and our divine role as covenant
women for Christ.”
Okay. I can get behind that. A lot of women I know and
respect like their page, and that’s how I came across a particular article that
was posted by them titled “Abortion: The Mormon Perspective on Abortion and
Human Life.”
The second paragraph of the article begins, "The Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is firmly and openly against abortion, and
continues to stand against this 'assault on the defenseless.'"
Now my first thought was, “Hold on, that isn’t the Church’s policy
on abortion.” I’m one of those nerdy types who reads things like the Church
Handbook and Mormon Newsroom for fun. So I’m pretty well versed in official positions
of the Church, particularly about various social issues. (You can quiz me at
another time. Trust me, I’m great fun at parties.)
But I continued to read the article, and it is full of
quotes from prophets and apostles regarding the evils of abortion. I can’t
really argue with any of those quotes. I agree with them, both individually and
collectively. But here’s the thing – the article never, not once, cites the
Church’s official position on abortion. And that fact alone means that the
contents of the article do not contain the whole story of the Church’s
position. There is a link at the bottom of the article to the Church’s site,
where you could find out the official position if you want to go look for it.
But if you just read the article, you will definitely finish believing that all
abortion is a horrible sin that is soundly condemned by the Church.
But it isn’t.
WHAT!?!?!? THE MORMON CHURCH DOESN’T CONDEMN ABORTION!?!?!?
Nope. Not in the way this article is portraying, at least.
Here’s the Church’s official position, as put forth by
Mormon Newsroom (yes, an official LDS site, as opposed to Mormon Women Stand):
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints believes in the sanctity of human life. Therefore, the Church opposes
elective abortion for personal or social convenience, and counsels its members
not to submit to, perform, encourage, pay for, or arrange for such abortions.
The Church allows for possible
exceptions for its members when:
- Pregnancy results from rape or incest, or
- A competent physician determines that the life or
health of the mother is in serious jeopardy, or
- A competent physician determines that the fetus has
severe defects that will not allow the baby to survive beyond birth.
The Church teaches its members that
even these rare exceptions do not justify abortion automatically. Abortion is a
most serious matter and should be considered only after the persons involved
have consulted with their local church leaders and feel through personal prayer
that their decision is correct.
The Church has not favored or opposed
legislative proposals or public demonstrations concerning abortion. (source here)
So the Church clearly opposes “abortion for personal or
social convenience.” But not all abortions are for personal or social
convenience. And the Church recognizes that, or it wouldn’t go on to list some
few and rare circumstances in which abortion might be justified.
I have a dear friend who is LDS, and who unfortunately had
one of these procedures. And yes, it fell into one of the categories the Church
considers justified. All I could think as I read this article was how
devastated I would feel if I was her. I would feel alienated by this complete lack
of acknowledgment that there are times when an abortion might be justified, and the implication (indeed, direct statement) that she needs to repent and ask forgiveness for this supposed "sin." My heart
broke for her and for any other woman who is in her position who might be
reading that article.
And then I got angry. But I controlled my anger like a good
Mormon woman (one of the few times, I assure you). I made a comment on the
article, in which I basically said what I’ve said above – I cited portions of
the Church’s official position, and stated that there are exceptions, although
they are admittedly rare. I also said that if the group was going to post an
article that presumably defended the Church’s position, I hoped they would at
least accurately represent that position. My comment was thoughtful (in my
opinion, at least) and not argumentative.
The comment got a lot of “likes” and even a comment or two
in the vein of “Yes! Thank you for saying this!”
And then it got deleted.
Disappeared.
Vanished.
Apparently, the page administrator doesn’t like that the
Church allows for some abortions. Or maybe they don’t want people to know that it’s
okay for some women in some circumstances to make that decision through prayer,
in consultation with their doctors and priesthood leaders. Read the statement.
That’s what it says.
Another section from the article posted by Mormon Women
Stand:
“This article has been created to add to the current
conversation and can be used as a resource guide for Mormons on the topic of
abortion. It utilizes information from scriptures, Church doctrine, and
teachings from past and present prophets and apostles, and will hopefully help
members of the Church explain, teach and defend their beliefs on this issue.”
Please, if you are reading this, take time to study and read
for yourselves and learn what the scriptures say. Learn what the official
statements of the Church are on various topics. Read the entire talks of Church
leaders who address this, rather than the short portion included in the
article. I assure you, they are much more representative of position laid out
by Mormon Newsroom. Pray and listen to the spirit, and let him teach you truth.
Do these things so that you will not be deceived. Just because someone claims to
represent Mormon Women, does not mean they represent Mormon doctrine or
position.
And to Mormon Women Stand (and other groups that
misrepresent the teachings of prophets and apostles): Stop putting the Church into
a box you’ve created. Stop using the Church to justify your own positions. If you
want to persuade people to your opinion, you’ll have to do better than relying
on misrepresentations and incomplete information. That’s called dishonesty, and
it is definitely NOT what this Mormon woman stands for.